Most men make predictable, common
mistakes when dealing with the opposite
sex.
Do you always find the pair of four inch heels
running away from you? Have you always been
wondering what goes wrong? Have you not
been able to find the perfect woman for you?
If you answered yes to any of these questions
then this article is for you.
Here are some common mistakes men make
with women.
1. Choosing a woman based on beauty alone:
This is the common mistake committed by
almost all men. True, it is difficult to look past
the attractiveness. However, it is important to
remember that in due course of time, beauty
fades. Then it is the other factors like
compatibility, intellectual ability etc. that
matter. There surely has to be a proper blend
if you don't want to be caught with a bimbo
for the rest of your life.
2. Do not try to be best friends too soon: It
very rarely happens that, women get attracted
to their best friends. A woman wouldn't date a
guy merely on the basis of how understanding
he is. It is the degree of attraction that
counts. So quit being so available for her, that
she takes you for granted. Yes it is important
that she feels comfortable in your company,
but that does not mean she begins to treat
you like one of her girlfriends.
3. Hot temper and violent behavior: This can
instantly scare off women. In fact, you should
use this when you want to get rid of a clingy
date. Actions like being rude to the waiter or
cab driver or getting involved in unnecessary
fights with random people is the signature of a
narcissistic creep.
4. Sharing intimate details with her too soon:
You don't need to tell her why you broke up
with you ex-girlfriend on the first date.
Neither do you have to tell her how much you
are attracted to her. It is always good to go
slow in relationships. As far as sharing
intimate details are concerned, it should be
done at a much later stage. This will not only
build her interest in you, but she will also
begin to look forward to trying to getting to
know you.
5. Letting them take total control: Women
would naturally want to be with someone with
who she can feel secure. Whatever happens
don't let her take total charge of any situation.
Show it to her, that you are man enough to
look after things. She will respect you and
magnetically get attracted to you.
6. Being bossy and dominating: Yes it is
important to learn to take charge, however
that does not mean that you go about
dominating her all the time. Let her take her
own decisions. Advise her only when you're
asked for it. Women hate to be bossed around.
They look out for a man, with who they can be
themselves. Hence, make sure you accept her
just the way she is.
7. Being self-obsessed: This can be a big turn-
off for any woman. No matter how good
looking, self-obsession is a trait of the
unsecured. Habits like constantly being
bothered about your looks, checking out your
reflection even in a spoon, being a constant
shopaholic, etc will give her the feeling that
she is with one of her girlfriends.
8. Corny pick-up lines: This is another instant
turn-off. Pick-up lines can be cute among
lovers. However, when you are using them to
try to get to know somebody they are a strict
no-no. Most of the time they are ineffective.
There are chances that she may pick the
wrong signal, thus subtracting any chance you
might have had with her. Instead, just ask a
common friend to introduce the two of you.
9. Bragging about yourself: There is a very thin
line between telling her about your
achievements and bragging about them.
Women hate braggers. They find them stupid
and annoying. Instead, just tell her about
yourself. As far as your achievements are
concerned, let her find them out herself. She
will appreciate your modesty.
10. Showering her with gifts: Big mistake! It is
the signature of a person plagued by
insecurity and foolishness. When you do this;
you are indirectly sending her the message
saying that, you are so insecure about yourself
and hence you need to buy gifts in order to
get her attracted to you. You may look like a
desperate person, trying so hard to get into a
relationship.
These are some of the most common mistakes
that men tend to repeat over and over again,
but in different ways. Avoid these mistakes to
have a happy relationship.
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